Human relations are the links in which people interact, either spontaneously or permanently.
It is absolutely necessary, to define our own well-being, to have emotional independence, in an environment where we deal with positive and negative forces, which are negative: they contaminate the environment in which we live, a place where it smells bad, with people who don’t They help us to elevate ourselves, to obtain our best version, the closeness of those people such as: the couple, family members, co-workers, friends, that when we enter that room, it smells so bad that the weather feels heavy, and unpleasant, that with each word they express, they generate a toxic and destructible environment, so much so that we allow ourselves to be absorbed until we become intoxicated, when we can make wise decisions.
Managing interrelationships can give us great satisfaction or great disappointment for which they generate a lot of suffering. It is a good time to ask ourselves: What smell does my environment smell like? What kind of aroma would I like to smell in the environment in which I frequent? A metaphorical expression, as a reflection, in the search to improve relationships with others, to learn to put distance, to say “No”, not to allow certain people to invade my space, manipulate my decisions, divert my goals or objectives, that make my desires fall. Sometimes, it is more than necessary to “mark territory”, to limit people, when they abuse and go overboard with blackmail and manipulation.
In this sense, a fundamental tool is “communication”, expressing what I dislike, what bothers me, in the event that the other person continues to contaminate the environment, leave on time and move away immediately, not waiting for it to affect my mental and physical health. An attitude of crucial and decisive ability to dissolve ties that do not contribute to my well-being, and get out on time from that environment that smells of “disgust”, to an intense climate.
Recognize and accept the idea of getting away from people with toxic behaviors, without feeling responsible, or feeling tied to those harmful and harmful relationships that only stagnate, that do not perfume my environment, and do not allow me to reach the fullness that I so desire for my life. .