April Harris (37) accepts and allows what not many would endorse: she lets her husband, Jamie Perkins, have sex with other women. Of course, everything has a price. And in this case it’s $65.
The man is the father of three children, he is 47 years old and has been working as a gigolo for almost 30 years. The $650 (£500) he earns monthly for his services in bed helps supplement the couple’s wages.
“There is no easier or faster way to earn money and it fits my job and family. Sometimes April struggles with the attention I get from other women, but she knows at the end of the day, I’m all hers,” the man from Norfolk, Britain, told The Sun.
The couple met at Tesco, the British supermarket chain where Jamie works. “I didn’t expect to fall in love that day,” April recalled of that first meeting. We chatted, he was honest about his life as a gigolo from the beginning.”
And she detailed: “I was intrigued and he was always willing to answer any questions I asked him about how everything works.”
how the story began
The first time I was 19 years old. At the time, Jamie was working as a sports massage therapist and a couple of patients suggested that he could make a fortune by offering “additional services”.
Although he was scared at first and rejected the proposal, a couple of weeks later he decided to give it a try. Those women became his first clients. From then on, she always used her income as an “hourly mistress” to supplement her main pay.
It happens that the man has three children – 7, 8 and 10 years old – from his first marriage and needs this “extra salary” to support them as they deserve. “Three children are not cheap. That’s why what I do as a gigolo helps, “he said in dialogue with the British media.
April, for her part, has a 19-year-old daughter and fully agrees with her current partner’s activity. While she admits that some people may find it controversial, she says that she “has great respect for a man who does whatever it takes to support her family.”
Jealousy, doubts and debts
The couple admits that they do not lead a luxurious lifestyle. They simply have the peace of mind that when there is an extra payment to cover, which can be to fix the car or buy something for the little ones, the man can go out, find clients and resolve the issue.
But while Jamie assures April that what she is doing is a simple financial transaction, she admits that she is only human and can feel insecure at times.
She says she’s never felt jealous, but sometimes she’s not entirely comfortable telling Jamie to have sex with another woman. “He always puts me at ease and we talk about it,” she recounted.
“He calls me his queen and tells me I’m beautiful all the time. We have brilliant communication and a really solid relationship, we balance each other perfectly,” she said in dialogue with The Sun. I run the house while he controls the bedroom. He is also very good at what he does. I am a very happy woman!”
Of course, for the tranquility of both, medical check-ups are frequently carried out.
Between the sheets
The couple agree that what goes on inside their bedroom is very different from what Jamie does when she works. “I don’t kiss any of my clients, I do that for April,” the man said.
And, at the same time, he confirmed that he does not sleep with married women either, unless their husbands agree.
“Having sex with your clients, the connection just isn’t there. When April kisses me, it’s pure fire. She is the only woman for me,” the man described. Her partner agrees and clarifies that in the house, she and Jamie make love, while what he does with the clients is just sex.
And he clarified in the interview: “Our sexual life is very different, it is personal and intimate and only for us. Nobody understands what I do. Jamie doesn’t stay overnight with female customers, nor does he stay with them for a cup of tea afterward.”
Confusion and obsessive love
But not everything is pink. April admits that women often associate their emotions with sex, which is why they have tried to form a bond with Jamie several times.
On one occasion, the obsession of a client who slept with the gigolo reached such a level that the couple had to move house to get away from her.
When giving examples, Jamie recalled that a woman told him that he had only six months left to live so that he could stay with her… In fact, from that day until today, more than two years have passed and she is still doing well.
“People can be manipulative, but I would never develop a relationship with a client and I have never been tempted to stray. I always look forward to coming home and taking a shower and being with April,” she told The Sun.
The secret of your success
Honest, Jamie accepts that he loves what he does and that he has a very intense sexual desire. “I must have slept with over 1,000 women,” he confessed. And he added: “I have seen dozens of naked women and I cannot say that one of them had a bad body. Curves, stretch marks, belly, everything is beautiful to me.”
But what is the secret of its success? What makes you irresistible in front of your clients? “I’m not super toned, I’m just a normal guy, I think that’s what they like,” he replied.
“I know how to make women happy and I take the time to listen to what they like and how they like it,” she added. “I get a lot of thank you messages from clients and I know a woman’s body well.”
Are there limits in bed? The answer is definitely yes. The gigolo admitted to refusing some sexual requests that, at the time, seemed strange to him.
“I’m not going to be with men either, I only sleep with women,” he clarified.
Fortunately for April, she is never short of energy. “He is never too tired to have sex with me and I don’t have to stimulate him in bed either, he takes charge,” the woman told the media.
Her routine doesn’t let her lie: “Sometimes Jamie comes back from being with one of her clients at 1 or 2 in the morning, takes a shower, we have sex until 4, and then gets up to work at 6.”
A future together
Although Jamie is approaching 50, he still says he’s not ready to quit. Only two situations could make him change his mind: being asked by his children or when he marries April.
Currently, the couple is not officially engaged; however, the wedding is in their plans and at that moment things will change.
“He will stop working as a gigolo when we get married. I think once we exchanged vows they ended up different. Marriage is sacred,” the woman assured.
And Jamie agreed with her: “There’s no point in getting married if I’m going to keep sleeping with other women, so I’d stop then.”
However, he made it very clear that: “But until then, I will continue to have sex for cash. April has no complaints and as far as I’m concerned, there’s no better way to pay the bills.”
