The intensity, the speed and even the area can make a difference when it comes to stimulating the male genitalia. In this note, we tell you how to unleash their pleasure using your hands, good communication and even the support of lubricants.
The correct pressure and speed.
When it comes to stimulating the male genitalia, it is ideal to accompany the movement of the hands by applying the correct pressure, which varies according to the moment, commented the psychologist and expert in sexuality, Alessandra Rojas.
“The pace should also be ideal: slower at first and leveling up according to how the couple feels,” he said.
the correct zones
In the field of male pleasure, one of the great myths is that the only erogenous zone is the glans. However, Rojas recalled that the entire body is an erogenous zone due to the nerve endings, which can produce sensations with the contact of the fingers.
“Unfortunately, we believe that only by stimulating the penis do we cause excitement, other areas can also be stimulated and caressed, for example, the testicles, the perineum, the anus, between the legs and the buttocks to seek greater pleasure,” he explained.
Lubrication
Lubricants are very useful tools when it comes to masturbation, the lawyer emphasized.
“These products help the hands to move smoother and more slippery along the penis, without causing discomfort or stretching the skin in a way that can be uncomfortable,” he said.
In addition to lubricants, other important tools are toys or the temperature contrast that can be achieved with ice or some gel. “This kind of complements provide a perception of heat in the area to seek different sensations,” he assured.
The communication
Mastery of masturbation techniques will be of no use if there is not a good flow of communication with the partner.
“With good communication we make sure that the moment is really pleasant, expressing whether these requirements are met. In case they are not fulfilled, make changes at the moment so as not to lose the erection, ”he commented.
Benefits
Practicing masturbation with your partner can translate into a variety of benefits for its members.
The lawyer Alessandra Rojas highlighted that the “touching” is an excellent prior to the sexual act.
“In many cases, this practice is useful if the other person in the couple does not want or cannot maintain penetrative relationships,” he said.
The trust
During masturbation, trust in the partner plays an important role in giving rise to the uninhibited enjoyment of pleasure, said the lawyer.
“Let us remember that stigmas keep us away from situations that could give us pleasure. The ideal is to give us the opportunity to experience and open ourselves to a broader field of pleasurable sensations. Everyone enjoys their sexuality in their own way and not everyone likes the same thing, but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong, ”she concluded.
Graduated in psychology and expert in sexuality, Alessandra Rojas.
